Take your pick - Personality or Looks?

Through my 19 years of living on this diabolical planet, i have never had a relationship as far as friends with a female. This is in part because perhaps i dont live up to some girls standards and in part to the fact as that i have never been confident, nor to i think im honestly that attracive. This is what this blog is about, do females set their relationships based on how boys look, or is linked to how personable the

I usually go clubbing and funnily enough its the bloke that is out there and pretty wild that gets the girl, also the one with hardly a personality but is all brawn rather than having some brains. While you see all the girl's that get picked up are usually blonde haired, size 2 or something incredibly stupid like that, and quite frankly, dont give a stuff if they look like something the belongs in a back alley of Kings Cross. That is what i really get infuriated about. There seems to be a distinct lack of girls/young women out there that would rather care about their appearance rather then showing they have a bit more of a package by acting mature and having a personality.

I guess the same could be said about blokes. Ask yourself this. How many blokes treat a girl you know like shit because he is good looking and can get away with it cause the girl will just come scrambling back. It shows a lack of faith, a lack of brains and complete stupidity by both groups. I think i have had 3 girls commit suicide that i know because of stupid acts by irresponsible males and i have had to go through the pain of knowing that i was the last person to talk to them and not knowing i cant help stop it.


You have to remember in 50 years time when you 60-70, are you going to be relying on someone's looks or on someone's personality? Sure, Hugh Heffner does it, and many rather rich people but they can buy that sort of attention (which clearly isn't good attention).


For a guy like me, i like a solid personality, can have fun, yeah sure, i like looks, but thats nothing to me because love doesn't exist outside the skin, merely it is how the person behaves. Im not trying to get brownie points by writing this, but just like my other blogs, just an expression of self.

Anyways, im off for another week or so, until next time keep it real, comment me, give me some feedback, would love to hear it. Links for my facebook and so on are to the left of the page.